困扰

人是复杂的~当外来的压力过于大的时候，内在会承受不住而崩溃~
每个人崩溃的方式不一样，有得选择逃避，有得选择大哭大闹，有得则变的情绪波动很大~
可是只要有适当的方式让他们发泄，这样就能让他们快点回复原来的状态~

偏见

心理学说，有一个词叫fill in the blank~
就是把你对一个人的认识通过一些表面或者你自己遇过的经验来评论一个人~
就以一件事情就认定别人的人格~ 而这个做法只能在表层的了解度，或许有些真的如表面般肤浅的能猜的出~

现在，谢谢你对我这般肤浅的了解...😔😞

reality life

你不需要委屈自己去奉承一些虚伪的人类~因为你的存在价值往往就是被这些看中你弱点的人利用得一文不值！
做人盲目得去配合别人，不但辛苦了自己，也许还会埋没了属于自己的天分，自己的优点，自己的判断能力，让自己做出一些愚昧的事情~
不是每一件事情都如你所听，别人所说般的真实，而是，一件事情你应该要有属于自己的判断能力，环境逼你配合别人，自己也可以逼自己变得更有理智更有头脑的人~
人的存在，不是为任何人死！而是为自己这辈子的存在价值狠狠的拼上一会，才算没有浪费这辈子的时间，而不是因为某些原因而绕着别人转！😏😏😏😏😏

是非黑白

一个被扯开的话，明明就是引起这件事的问题，可是，为什么吵的却是另一个话题？你可以不顾后果，得意洋洋的写一个帖子出来，在社交网站里，谁都能看到的~那是有何用意啊？然而我写的任何一些句子，都是得罪你的？你爽，你高兴就去写，你不爽，会有人帮你写~多好啊，不用弄脏自己的手~可是，帮你的人知道，吵架的原因吗？大概都不在乎那个原因吧？在乎的是，受委屈了，被人说了~朋友站不了中立的立场也不该做那个多嘴的立场~

自我矛盾的人类

我不明白，人总是在不同的时候说不同的话~
在一个人的面前可以说那个人的坏话~毫无止境的说那个人的不是~

How about my FUTURE!????

It's not about the background of my family and yours already....
It's about my dignity!!! Yes!! you're born  with gold key....i'm not...and i knew that what you said not really meant what i felt..but it's hurt for me to listen it...
I started to figure out,whether we can keep on going or should we disengage and find a better one...
Perhaps your mom really didn't dislike me..but myself still worried about what your mom think of me....because i don't want you to quarrel with your mom because of me...
You talk to me about your family...your dad wanna buy a motorbike,Yamaha...nice...then explain how was its price,much more expensive than other brand,and said that your dad would like to buy expensive brand but worth for it...haizzz....felt like there is a big gap between us...now already happened,how can we face it till the future...i really cant accept that i need to depend on you to live the rest of my life....i want to depend on myself ability to make my dream become reality...what mansion,what kind of branded car i able buy it.....FIGHTING FOR MY FUTURE....TO THOSE WHO LOOK DOWN AT ME...KEEP ON WISHING THEN...I WILL SHARE MY SUCCESSFUL WITH YOU ALL......THANK FOR YOURS EXCITATION....AND CRITICIZE！！！！

未来的路不难走，重要的是，你到底有多大的毅力走下去~~~~

We can't be afraid of change. You may feel very secure in the pond that you are in, but if you never venture out of it, you will never know that there is such a thing as an ocean, a sea. Holding onto something that is good for you now, may be the very reason why you don't have something better

猫头鹰couple~~

这个笨蛋，把戒指敢敢给我弄不见，现在找回来了，就哪里摆pose.......xDD

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不能，我也来回一张~~~哈哈，这样就天生一对了啦！